So Saturday morning was just normal. I ended up having a little argument with my then boyfriend but decided to leave it and go to the gym with my mum. When we got back from the gym, the little caravan that we bought together had gone, he’d packed his clothes and was sat in his car.
We went inside and he told me it wasn’t working anymore and that he wanted to stay friends blah blah blah. Then he left. Leaving me in floods of tears, 2 hours before I had to start work.
I obviously got sent home from work early as I was such a mess and I couldn’t stop crying. However, since Saturday I have felt fine. Obviously I miss him and it hurts to see that he has gone and followed loads of them naked instagram models (obviously unfollowed him), but I realised something.
If somebody can do that to someone at the worst time in their life (health wise and mental health wise) then are they really worth suffering for? No is the answer. He broke my heart when I’m mid investigation and don’t even know what’s wrong with me. It obviously shows how little I meant for him to be so selfish.
Instead of sitting around and moping I got up the next day, smashed another gym session and started looking at better things to do. I have applied for one dream I’ve always had (I will be writing a blog post If I get accepted) and I’ve already started making a better life for myself. After only 4 pretty much full days of being broken up with him, I’ve started looking forward to perusing my dream. That’s the only revenge that I need.
Just smile, you deserve better, brave to share your story, keep inspiring. – The Doors To Wisdom
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Thank you so much ๐
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Good luck!!! You have done great, you don’t need a man! You create your happiness xx
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Thank you, that’s what I’m gonna do ๐xx
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Amazing.. Continue to Work On Being The Best You ๐๐ฝ๐๐พ
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Thank you so much ๐
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Your awesome and I love that you wasted no time in bettering yourself. It does take time to get over it but so happy you are taking action and still working out, it definitely helps. Keep your head up girl and hope your dreams come true, stay chasing them!
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Aww thank you so much! Comments like this make me so happy and more focused โฅ๏ธ thank you again ๐
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Youโre Inspiring โค People like you and posts like this help people like me talk about my breakup and help me think about how Im going to move forward.
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Aww thank you so much ๐ honestly you should see it as a blessing in disguise because its honestly the best thing that happened to me ๐
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Well…that was a perfectly awful thing for him to do. I’m sorry to hear it but how have things worked out 6 months on? When it happened to me, it took awhile before I was even ready to meet someone else. But when it happened, it’s been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Hope it’s working out for you.
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Yeah he’s not the nicest of people! Things are great now thank you!! I’m not seeing anyone but I’m so much happier that way! I’m so glad things worked out for you in the end too!
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This is first post from you that I’m reading and it’s like I’ve always known you from another life. The dejavu is so strong! Hi there, I’m Hana btw ! ๐
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Haha hey there Hana! Thanks for reading ๐
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